Get confidence in yourself!!

A note to a not confident lady

This is a PM (Pvt msg) that I wrote to a lady that was having body image issues and I talked her up a lot

Then she quickly wrote and said "thanks"
After I said--> Yw. (Your welcome)
This is what I told her! 

Every bit of it TRUE!!

You just must have the attitude that your body is imperfect, so is mine, so is his, and hers is too.
It's what makes us human.

There are things you cannot change, live with those things. The things you can change, work on.

But NO one is ever going to put me down or make me feel less than who I am!

Get that attitude!

And you will have confidence in yourself.

Do you realize that I can stand before you or ANYone and NO one will ever offend me?

Yes, even if I'm nude!

That's how much blatant self-confidence I have. I'm certainly far from perfect, but then the person in front of me is too. That's what you must ingrain into yourself.

Keep your chin up and have a Fabulous day now.

CJ

Read this for encouragement

I hope she got the message.

You just have to go down deep into the depths of your soul and be strong enough to let any invisible word bounce off you like superman!!

Ask yourself, 

how many of them are invisible?
You should say ALL of them!!

They are just invisible forces that come out of your mouth that CANNOT hurt you!

Think about it, they are:

TASTELESS
ODORLESS

CAnt even feel them!

Get the point? 

They can't hurt you!! Unless you let them. 
So don't let them!! 
Tricky, huh?
Well, practice!

Here's how you do it!

When someone calls you, for instance, a little bitch, 

there are only 2 possibilities:

1 - You are one?

2 - You are NOT one?

If it's #1, then you shouldn't be offended. 

Now, if its #2, which I assume it is, 

why would you be offended if the person is wrong?

If John called you that, 

why are you put down by his ignorance? 

John is the 1 that's wrong or uneducated, so HE should be the one that feels offended or idiotic, right?

If I walked up to you and called you an ugly tree, 

wouldn't you be the one that laughs at me?

You are obviously NOT a tree, right?

So wouldn't that show how stupid I am?

So just replace "tree" with something else. 

If someone calls you a little fag, then go back up to the 2 possibilities and go through them. 

You are a little fag? 

or 

you are NOT a little fag?

Then when #2 applies, laugh at the idiotic moron that is calling you a name. His stupidity should not offend you! He's the one that's not going anywhere in life!

But YOU are!

Remember that!!

Look at me, I'm a famous blogger. Ok, not really that famous, but where do you think all the imbeciles that made fun of me are today?

You are correct!

Probably at BK or Mc. D's. flippin burgers, because they were too busy putting me down to study very hard.

What do you think?

The only way someone can offend you is if you somehow believe that maybe they are correct in their statement.

So you must:

KNOW WHO THE FUCK YOU ARE

AND

KNOW WHAT THE FUCK YOU ARE

Get that confidence in yourself and then NO ONE ever will offend you at all!

Remember:

"Because true belonging only happens when we present our authentic, imperfect selves to the world, our sense of belonging can never be greater than our level of self-acceptance.” — Brene Brown

When you're truly at peace and in touch with yourself, nothing anyone else says or does bothers you and no negativity can touch you.    

You're un-fuck-with-able!

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